It's now June 2008, officially today. The week was enjoyable with the holiday at the beginning [See Lindsey's blog] and moved on to Megan's KHS graduation Thursday [see Lindsey's dropshots]. I kept giving dad high 5's at the graduation and mentioning how wonderful this was, but thought I ought to explain why that was such an awesome thing for me to see Megan graduate.
May 2000. . . Eight years ago seems so far away now, but the memories will always stand out in significance for me. Perhaps they are fuzzy for you, but never for me. I had just finished chemo treatments and the final recovery weeks, finally feeling like I could get back up on my feet----and STAY up!!!!! I had been approached to teach family history in the fall at BYUH, a surprising new professional opportunity for me. Megan had returned from the 4th grade Big Island trip earlier which I didn't get to chaperone, but I'd felt good enough to chaperone her end-of-the-year picnic with the 4th grade down at Clissold's Beach and beyond. It was probably around then, but it occurred to me that even though I knew I had to take this recovery thing one day at a time, how blessed I'd be for each family occasion I'd be able to witness. I didn't know then what the future had in store for my health, so each event held great meaning for me. My goal was to make it through the remaining high school graduations--first Jenny, then Erin, and finally, 5 years after that, for Megan's And so now, as of May 29, 2008, I'VE MADE IT!!!!! These are tears of J O Y.
BUT I'm just so thankful to have witnessed so much more than that in these 8 years...accompanying 2 daughters off to school in Utah following their h.s. graduations, 3 daughters graduating with their bachelor's degrees, 3 daughters' temple marriages and acquiring, at last, "my own sons," births [so far] of 3 handsome and well-loved, unique grandsons, travel to Denver, Boston,Plymouth, Providence, RI, Connecticut [where we watched the Nauvoo temple dedicated], Sharon, VT, Indiana, Illinois/Chicago, Iowa, Ohio, Pennsylvania, NYC and Wicked with PJ, Nauvoo, Europe, Christmas in Utah and California and its theme parks, and Europe and dream-of-a-lifetime Croatia, Northern Rockies in Canada, Palmyra, etc., another trip down to PA, Acquiring land and completing our renovated, beautiful home on the most beautiful spot imaginable here with John's mark in every nail, board, or brick along the way. If my family knows me well, they remember that I'm a realist, so I'd never even ventured to hope this far ahead back in 2000 that ALL of these would occur--and so much more I'm not mentioning, but nevertheless, appreciating. Dad, that's why there were all of the high 5's and "we did it"s !!! I feel so very, very blessed. And I thank the Lord for these abundant, dream-come-true blessings and events I've been privileged to witness in all of your lives.
W O W ! ! ! Thank you all for being there, and for being the sources of Parent Pride Moments you each are for me. I'm thankful, still thankful, for each day, and every day is a "birth" day for me and will always be.
That's all for now.
Love, mom